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Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Stop...

People who are the closest to you have the most capacity to hurt you. This is but obvious and highly scary. So when you are in such a situation when you do get hurt and get hurt repetitively, what do you do? Do nothing and wait for it to go away? Move the person a bit farther away from you so you stop getting hurt so often? The second option sounds more appealing at times since you’re sick of feeling this way, but then again you don’t want those consequences… even though you get the feeling that the person might be taking you for granted. What do you do then? Again wait for it to go away and just ignore it? Show the person how wrong they are by making them realise you might not always be there? Again the second option would sound tempting if it weren’t so damn hard to do and you realise that the other person might be more important to you than you are to them… And you wish it could go back to how it was… Carefree (fine, more carefree than the present), less touchy, with less expectations… wish it would stop feeling vulnerable and stop wanting to lash out, only to realise that you can’t bring yourself to in the first place…

3 comments:

another brick in the wall said...

yeah obviously.. ppl who are closest 2 u.. their presence affects u thts y they are closest to u! so naturally whn thy hurt u.. the pain's gonna be as bad!

1) i wud bear it.. if the person knows me well enuff and if the person really luvs me.. tht person will come thru.. if he/she still fails 2 understnd the problem.. probably i wud make it clear to him/her bout wats bothering me so tht there are no misunderstndngs!

2) if i realize the person's takin me 4 granted.. i wud talk to him/her bout it cz tht wud avoid the estrangement in anyway since both of us wud want 2 be there for each other na! so y not jst talk it out rather n stay shut n leave it 2 time.. quite stupid na.. koi bolega nahi toh communicate kaise hoga.. sometimes its imp 2 talk u kno!

finally! wat the hell! kya hua hai tereko! tu kuch bataati nahi hai mereko aaj kal! :(.. ok.. bhadak mat bhadak mat.. jst kidding.. tc alrt.. kuch hai toh bindaas call kar! dope! :)

raghu said...

i guess somewhere down the line by lettin people come close to u.. u give them the right to hurt u.. ya i guess right is the correct word.

this shud b the origin of trust.

Tresa said...

i agree...people who are teh closest to you tend to hurt you the most...but also keep in mind that probably they love you the most too...its because they are close to you that u get hurt so quickly...put yourself in a situation where another person did the same thign to u? would the wound be so bad?...
People do tend to get complacent... i would give it a rly hard try...swallow a lot of pride...try and understand...keep my difference aside...bt i believe that there's a limit for everything...theer's a line which nobody should cross....cause if they do then i noe iv lost myself forever.